johnI

  

First of all, Thx a lot !! Big c hing Robertchan's great advice.

The following is coded by Robertchan's previous comments.

出黎吃飯好平常o者，即係等如你經常在一間麥記幫趁，而你見到一個靚女，想同佢做朋友，你會唔會約佢出來吃飯呢? 情況一樣。當然，你約人果時咪鬼陰陰笑蛇頭鼠眼，咁囡囡就唔會誤會。切勿戴有色眼鏡，以為同佢地出來就會以為對方當你鹹蟲，也不要覺得同囡囡出來吃飯唔正經。如果在香港，梗唔會約骨妹，但因為在國內，比人撞見機會低，所以唔怕。

骨場囡囡平時冇咩時間，每月只得兩、三天閒日才可以放的假期，如果你也是打工仔，要週末先有時間，你只得兩個選擇 :
1. 週末幫囡囡買鐘
2. 就囡囡之空檔時間，例如佢返早班，你就約佢黃昏；返晚班，你就約佢下午。

至於點樣去打開話題行出第一步，約佢出來，就要知道對方係咩類型。
「凡說之難，在於所說之心，可以吾說當之。」.....關鍵就係投其所好。至於點樣投其所好，而家吃飯先，遲下再講。

johnI

This is second part (also coded by Robertchan!)

答你呢個問題，你要清楚知道你自已做緊乜:
1. what do u want to achieve, say, just play play or you want her to be your girlfriend
2. to what extent you invest in this BG in terms of $$$ and time
3. your risk profile (in case of failure, what you can accept without affecting your daily life)

假設你已 set 好bottom line & 你已準備隨時 cut loss.....

假設那是正場純情妹，你就可以當佢係銀行妹咁去對待，以一些正經活動為依歸。通當正經純情女仔鐘意乜? 九成都係靜態，行下街，買下野，睇下戲，食下飯，聽下歌，睇下書.......如果係跳札札既，就會鐘意溜下冰，跳下舞，行下山，旅下行.....我 up 咁多野，無非比小小 hints 你，等你知道佢鐘意 d 乜，然後投其所好，打開話題。如果你口才唔係好到加零一，你就要借助「道具」，可以先送小小野比佢，吸引佢對你既注意力，覺得你呢個人係生存o係人間，而又有誠意想同佢做朋友既雄性動物。送 d 乜，都話明道具，唔洗貴，係用黎過橋，打開話題 ....睇下佢平時同你按摩拎住果個箱仔缺小 d 乜野，然後買件比佢，都係不外乎小梳，鏡，指甲鉗之類.....去2元店搵件，選岩有佢鐘意既公仔或圖案就可以。如果你想拎高小小分，花多小小心思，買支小筆，memo pad，筆型手電筒....跟住同佢講，話你見到佢支筆唔係咁好寫，又冇紙仔寫電話比客人，簽單又唔夠光.........於是特別同佢買...以顯示你心細如塵......呢件小小禮物就係一隻雄蜘蛛向一隻雌蜘蛛表示友好的信物。記住，呢件野只係「藥引」，只用作打開話題，至於小弟，我就鐘意送手機繩，嘿嘿。

johnI

引用:

Originally posted by robertchan at 2007-1-1 23:16:

哈哈，你終於蒲頭~~~
你中毒太深，快 d 壯士斷臂先，然後洗腦，再由頭開始。

c hing..........I'm also sinking ar...........and now just go to rat rat ...want to distort my concentration.........:smile1:

But still thinking of her........... and met her for a dinner law.....and follow you to buy a little gift to her.....

johnI

引用:

Originally posted by robertchan at 2007-1-2 00:37:

細路，你去到兩野比佢吞左落肚啦，骨都冇得淨。我果次去會佢，佢同我 d 對話，句句有骨，字字珠璣。

  High Hand VS High Hand la...:victory:

johnI

I met the pure girl today,..of course 2 hrs massage sin....

Action:

1) Giving her a gift...(learn from c hing robert)....a hello kitty phone hang clips

2) She ...That's great...she like it !!

3) Then, I ask her for a dinner after work (5pm !!)....and I use many wording la....

4) She eventually ok la...as her relatives not at home...she go out for dinner....and I take the chance.....

5) However, my communication skills is not very good in Puton languages....very limited....she also don't know cantonese very much...she came here only 1 year !!

6) just dinner....quite boring....

7) I ask her about hobby la....but she said she know nothing...just fond of sleeping and then laugh....

8) singing, reading, watch film, shopping, hiking, swiming........ no one like.....no entrance point...

9) I then want to take photo with her ,.her pretty faces ma.... she don't like....

10) Then, I told her I'm quite pofessional and show some photo to her....finally, she agreed to take some la,.:heart:....now I have her pics....very happy...but can get another program with her in future...no entrance point ar...


Robert c hing...please help me ar......